Love requirement?

There have been a lot going on lately.

Been updating each other about our lives during holidays.

Especially love life.

Well I guess thats what girls love to talk about.

Some people is doing well,

some not so good.

I have a friend that have just ended her almost 3 years relationship.

Is love just all about the feeling you have towards each other?

Or you have to consider about a lot more things?

Family background, religion, beliefs, education level, family disagreement, friends.....

What I think is,

it all depends on how strong you think your love for each other is...

Religion.

I never came across this problem yet,

cause my other half was always a Buddhist.

and I'm a Buddhist.

And I wonder if my parents ever mind about this part.

Never asked and I don't think they mentioned about it.

What I clearly know from what my mum expect from my other half is,

education level perhaps.

She always tells me that my husband must be more educated than me,

or at least on the same level. Hmmmm..

But I do think something will happen if the education level is far different.

Less topic and different point of views. Totally agree on that.

People that straight away stepped into the society to work might think they are much more matured than us whose still in university.

True, or not true?

Maybe they really had more experience I perhaps.

This is something I'm sure that will cause argument.

Well at least for me.

Family background.

It's not about your other half being wealthy or not.

It's about him being smart or not. =)

Family pressure man.

I still don't know whether my parents have accepted the fact that 

I'm with my bf now.

I wish you can see that I'm really serious about my relationship

and understand me.

Family is one main factor that enhances or destroys your relationships.

It's going to be very hard for things to go on if 

your family keep giving you pressure to end it.

I wonder if our family keep giving us all these requirements,

are we going to look for our other half depending on requirements of our family or depending on our feelings?

Hmmmm.... what you think?

Overall, 

I think the most important part is the feelings.

Whats with going through all these crap if you are not in love with each other?

There might be a lot of arguments and disagreements depending on how each individuals 

think about all these things.

But everything is possible depending on how you sees it. =)

If there's no more belief,

there's no hope.

=)